Veronica's Relationship Story
He convinced me to have sex with him
When I was 14 years old I lost my virginity to the wrong guy for the wrong reason. It happened like this!
I had just moved into a new neighborhood, and I had no friends except this one guy who lived about three houses down from me. We always flirted and stuff, and eventually I convinced myself that I was in love this him.
One day after school he came to my house like very other day, but that day my mom wasn't home. I didn't think he'd actually try anything like that on me, but that day he asked me to be his "girl" and I accepted. A little later that day he convinced me to have sex with him. I thought about it at first but gave in anyway in fear that he'd leave me. I really liked him, so I went ahead and did it.
Honestly, I regret every second of it. First of all, it's nothing all that great. Second, I KNEW I wasn't ready; and third, it ruined everything. Ever since that day he hasn't spoken to me. I see him all the time, but he just keeps going. I know now that I made a huge mistake. Since then I haven't been involved sexually with anyone. I'm going to wait until I find that one guy that I'll marry and be with to share such a special moment with.
My advice - wait. Although that guy might be tempting and you THINK you love him and he loves you, just wait. Trust me. In the end it's not worth it; and if he really loves you, he'll wait.
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