I am the father of an unborn child - girl or boy. It is still a part of me. The mother wouldn't give me a reason as to why this was happening or any possibility of talking her out of it. All I got was a direct answer that she goes tomorrow to the clinic. All the while she was crying I tried to comfort her, but all I got was, "I'll get over it."

She might, but what about me? What about the thoughts of MY child being aborted? Nothing I could do about it... nothing I could say to change the mother's mind. What about the guilt, the agony, the suicidal thoughts, the pain I will have to live with the rest of my life knowing I will never get to be the father of my unborn child?

There will never be a day that goes by that I will not think of my baby girl or boy and not a night that I won't lie in bed and cry, and pray to God that she will be taken care of, and pray for forgiveness.

-- Charles