The estimated cost per year to raise a child to the age of 18 is $12,000. That's right, $12,000 a year to keep a child alive.
 
That's definately something to think about! How much money do you make a year? Can you really afford to support a child of your own?

 
 
 

 
 
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Alicia - I'm 14 and I've been trying to convince my boyfriend to have a baby with me because they are so cute, like puppies and kittens, and a baby would love me unconditionally.

Kara - I was 14 years old when I became pregnant?When I found out I was happy. My mom didn't feel that way though. She made me get an abortion.

you make the decision to have a baby, you need to think about the impact that decision will have on you, your parents, your boyfriend, AND your baby.

- Are you financially able to cover all the costs of pregnancy, delivery, and newborn medical care? Do you have insurance? How are you going to finish school (which is important to your future and your baby's)? Can you pay for all the material things a baby needs (crib, furniture, clothes, formula, diapers, etc.)? Are you prepared to not see and go out with your friends because you have to take care of your baby? Are you prepared to deal with an older "baby" - toddler, child, teen, for the next 20 years? Can you provide a loving and safe home for your baby?

- What will their reaction be? Don't expect them to be happy. In the worse case scenario they could react like Kara's mom in the story above. Even though an abortion can't legally be performed without your consent, parents can put tremendous pressure on their pregnant daughters.

- Is he really ready to be a father? How is he going to be a father to his child and still finish school? How will HIS parents react? Will he cut and run in the end? Are you prepared to raise your child alone if he does?

- Every child deserves to be born into a safe and loving environment with a mother and father who are emotionally and financially mature to provide for all of his/her needs for the next 20 years. Becoming a good parent means putting the welfare of your child first. Babies don't stay little very long, and raising a child to adulthood is the most important job you'll ever have. Can you give your child all this?
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